Theresa's Plan to Save the World

Step 2: Judgment, Part 2

Step 2 in the plan was judgment. I want to add a point. There are times when I cannot let something that someone else has done go. I plan what I am going to say or do to them over and over in my head. Screaming Mimi is screaming, “You hurt me! I want you to feel bad for how you treated me!” She wonders how it could happen.

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How can I help?

Each of us has to start somewhere. Maybe, just maybe, since we are one, if we all opened our hearts, everyone’s needs would be met. Sam likes to give to hospitals. Sally likes to give to the food bank. Jim has no money, but he does magic tricks, so he donates his time in the children’s hospital so they can have laughter… So on and so on.

Theresa's Plan to Save the World

Step 2 of Theresa’s Plan to Save the World: Judgment

Judgment always involves duality or contrast. So complaints are judgments: “It is too hot. It is too cold.” We also judge the positive, “I think that person does wonderful things.” How do you know that person is doing wonderful things? Do you know their motivation? Maybe they are looking to better their career or to be looked up to. Are they trying to get something? You don’t know, nor do I.